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Are You a Leader?

The following test is for personal information only and is not meant to be a professional evaluation.

This questionnaire assesses personality characteristics that are related to leadership qualities including tendency to lead, to be assertive and goal-oriented, and ability to cooperate.

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Related reading:

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  • For authors and more information:

    Goldberg, L. R., Johnson, J. A., Eber, H. W., Hogan, R., Ashton, M. C., Cloninger, C. R., & Gough, H. C. (2006). The International Personality Item Pool and the future of public-domain personality measures. Journal of Research in Personality, 40, 84-96.

    International Personality Item Pool: A Scientific Collaboratory for the Development of Advanced Measures of Personality Traits and Other Individual Differences (http://ipip.ori.org/).

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