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Below are sixteen statements that you may agree or disagree with. Using the 1 - 7 scale, indicate
your agreement with each item . Please be open and honest in your responses.
No login required to obtain results. Item 1: I am very disappointed in my marriage.
Item 2: I am very disappointed in my spouse.
Item 3: My partner used to be my best friend,
but now I often don’t like her/him as a person.
Item 4: Marriage is not at
all what I had expected it to be; I feel very disappointed and bitter.
Item 5: Before we were married I
thought that I was lucky to be with someone like my partner, now, I am
no longer sure that I am so lucky.
Item 6: I used to love
spending time with my spouse, but then it started to feel like a chore.
Item 7: I feel tricked,
cheated, or deceived by love.
Item 8: Marriage is not
as enjoyable as I had expected it to be.
Item 9: If I could go back in time,
I would not marry my spouse again.
Item 10: Before we got married,
my spouse “put his/her best foot forward;” later he/she no longer bothered.
Item 11: My marriage is no longer
as important to me as it used to be.
Item 12: Marriage used to be a sacred bond;
now it is just a legal document.
Item 13: My partner seems to be an entirely
different person now.
Item 14: Before we got married,
I wanted to be a better person around my partner; once we were married,
my spouse no longer inspired me to improve.
Item 15: I no longer know
what makes for a happy marriage.
Item 16: I have given up on
my marriage.
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