Frequently, people are searching for the "perfect" life believing that if they make the right choices life
will be pleasant and easy. They may believe that by controlling every aspect of their own life and those they love
they can prevent any hardship. However, by focusing on controlling life, they are unable to fully appreciate their
own path through life.
Or, people may be envious of other people's lives. They may believe that others have better lives or have made
better choices. In the process of focusing on others' lives they are unable to see the value in their own life.
This audio is to help with viewing your own path through life in a different way. It is meant to be listened
to repeatedly as a meditation because you may gain different insights when you listen to it at different times.
When you listen to a meditation, don't try to force the feelings but just allow yourself to experience it. If
other thoughts distract you, just allow yourself to refocus very gently back to the meditation. Over time you
will find yourself more able to focus and experience it to greater levels.
Do not use while operating a car!
"When you are in a state of
mindfulness you are actually
more aware and able to
engage in tasks..."
When I ask clients what they do for daily relaxation I usually get responses such as:
"I relax by watching TV every night."
"I have a glass of wine."
"I read a book."
"I go out with friends."
"I go to the gym and work out."
"I find gardening relaxing."
"I like to fish."
Although each of these activities may be perceived as relaxing and may even have an element of
mindfulness, they don't provide the brain and body with the deep meditative relaxation we
require. In fact, most of these activities are stimulating to the brain or the body rather than quieting.
What is Deep Meditative Relaxation?
When I refer to deep meditative relaxation,
I mean the type that allows our brain to enter an "alpha" state for a period of time. An "alpha"
state refers to our brain waves as measured by an EEG. When (non-invasive) electrodes are
attached to our heads to measure our brain waves, we find several different types occur depending
upon our degree of wakefulness.
The normal state of wakefulness in which we are fully aware and active is shown as "beta" waves.
Beta waves on the EEG are very active, not very uniform, and not deep are slow. This makes sense
as it is showing that the brain is active which includes thinking as well as physical activity
which the brain must direct. So, most of the statements above can be described by a "beta wave
When we fall asleep our brain slows down, and the brain waves become deeper, slower, and more
rhythmic as we progress through the deeper stages of sleep including theta and delta brain waves.
However, when we cycle back into dream sleep or "REM" sleep then our brain approaches the wakeful
state of the beta waves because our brain is active during dream sleep.
For most people who don't practice deep meditative relaxation, these are the primary brain waves
that they experience. However, with deep relaxation, meditation, hypnosis, and mindfulness people
experience the alpha brain wave state as well as the theta brain wave state (Chiesa, 2009;
Lagopoulos et al, 2009) which have been shown to have significant health benefits. READ MORE: page 2
Intro to Meditative Relaxation--page 1
What are the health benefits of deep meditative relaxation?--page 2
How do I do deep meditative relaxation?--page 3
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