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Crazy-Makers: Dealing with Passive-Aggressive People

Why Are People Mean? Don't Take It Personally!

When You Have Been Betrayed

Struggling to Forgive: An Inability to Grieve

Happy Habits: 50 Suggestions

The Secret of Happiness: Let It Find You (But Make the Effort)

Excellence vs. Perfection

Depression is Not Sadness

Conflict in the Workplace

Motivation: Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic

20 Steps to Better Self-Esteem

7 Rules and 8 Methods for Responding to Passive-aggressive People

Promoting Healthy Behavior Change

10 Common Errors in CBT

What to Do When Your Jealousy Threatens to Destroy Your Marriage

Rejection Sensitivity, Irrational Jealousy and Impact on Relationships

For Women Only: How to Have the Relationship of Your Dreams

What to Do When Your Partner's Jealousy Threatens to Destroy Your Relationship

Making Attributions for a Healthier Attitude

Happiness is An Attitude

Thinking Your Way to a Healthy Weight

Guide to How to Set Achieveable Goals

The Effectiveness of Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment for Anxiety Disorders

Co-Dependency: An Issue of Control

The Pillars of the Self-Concept: Self-Esteem and Self-Efficacy

Catastrophe? Or Inconvenience?


Panic Assistance

Motivational Audios

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Relaxation for Children

Change Yourself--Don't Wait for the World to Change

Loving Kindness Meditation

Self-Esteem Exercise

Meadow Relaxation

Rainy Autumn Morning

Energizing Audios

Quick Stress Relief

Thinking Your Way to a Healthy Weight

Lies You Were Told

Choosing Happiness

Lotus Flower Relaxation

Audio Version of Article: Crazy-Makers: Passive-Aggressive People

Audio Version of Article: Why Are People Mean? Don't Take It Personally!

Audio Version of Article: Happiness Is An Attitude

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Kindle Books by Dr. Monica Frank


Emotion Training: What is it and How Does it Work?

How You Can Be More Resistant to Workplace Bullying

Are You Passive Aggressive and Want to Change?

When Your Loved One Refuses Help

The Porcupine Effect: Pushing Others Away When You Want to Connect

What if You Considered Other Peoples' Views?

5 Common Microaggressions Against Those With Mental Illness

What to Expect from Mindfulness-based Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (MCBT) When You Have Depression and Anxiety

Does Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy Lack Compassion? It Depends Upon the Therapist

When Needs Come Into Conflict

What to Do When Anger Hurts Those You Love

A Brief Primer On the Biology of Stress and How CBT Can Help

50 Tools for Panic and Anxiety

Coping With Change: Psychological Flexibility

Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Ending a Bad Relationship

I'm Depressed. I'm Overwhelmed. Where Do I Start?


Building Blocks Emotion Training

Hot Springs Relaxation

5 Methods to Managing Anger

Panic Assistance While Driving

Autogenic Relaxation Training

Rainbow Sandbox Mindfulness

Mindfulness Training

Riding a Horse Across the Plains

Cityscape Mindfulness

Change Yourself--Don't Wait for the World to Change

The Great Desert Mindfulness

Tropical Garden Mindfulness

Thinking Your Way to a Healthy Weight

Lies You Were Told

Probability and OCD

Choosing Happiness

Magic Bubbles for Children

Lotus Flower Relaxation

Cloud Castles for Children

Hot Air Balloon Motivation

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15 Coping Statements for Panic and Anxiety

by Monica A. Frank, Ph.D.

Coping statements can be part of your strategy to manage anxiety. What are coping statements? When you struggle with anxiety you are usually engaging in fearful and/or inaccurate self-talk which tends to increase the anxiety. The purpose of coping statements is to counter this anxious self-talk.

This series provides an explanation of some common coping statements. The best way to use them is to identify the ones that are most calming to you and repeat them over and over when you are anxious sort of like a mantra. Combining a single statement with taking slow breaths can be particularly helpful.

Index to 15 Coping Statements


Coping statement #3: “Anxiety isn't always an emotion.”

Coping statement #3: “Anxiety isn't always an emotion.”

Anxiety is body arousal which can be due to any number of triggers. For many people with anxiety, they become confused about the anxiety when it doesn't manifest in its usual way. Frequently I've had clients I treated for anxiety who were managing their anxiety well but had a sudden flare-up they didn't understand and which caused additional distress: “I don't really feel anxious about anything, why am I having these symptoms?”

When I explore with them recent changes or possible triggers, we often discover there are other reasons for the symptoms. The reason there are many triggers for anxiety symptoms is because the symptoms are due to the arousal of the autonomic nervous system (ANS). The ANS is a natural system of the body when the body feels threatened or in danger--it prepares us to react to the threat. To understand this further, read: A Brief Primer on the Biology of Stress and How CBT Can Help.

Many times when my clients have anxiety symptoms they don't understand they become even more anxious due to the concern about why the symptoms are suddenly occurring. Sometimes just knowing the reason for the symptoms can be reassuring. By understanding your body you can tolerate the symptoms better and/or decrease the symptoms. Some of the possible triggers:

1) Illness. A common cold can often be a trigger for anxiety symptoms because the body experiences illness as a threat and will try to protect itself through the arousal of the ANS. In addition, when a person has a cold, they sometimes take medicines that may have arousing effects.

2) Diet changes. I've found with a number of clients that a change in diet can be a trigger for anxiety. In particular, those who suddenly switched to a high protein/low carbohydrate diet. This makes sense when you consider that complex carbohydrates tend to have a calming effect on the body so an extreme reduction in carbohydrates can have the opposite effect. However, any extreme change in diet can be seen as a threat by the body.

3) Change in exercise. Those who exercise routinely but for some reason are unable to do so may experience anxiety symptoms. The reason for this is that exercise tends to reduce anxiety symptoms so it may be a coping tool for some people. If they stop exercising suddenly, their primary coping is withdrawn and, as a result, they experience anxiety.

4) Lack of sleep. Poor sleep can lead to anxiety symptoms. The reason being that the body views the lack of sleep as a threat since sleep is a necessary part of daily regeneration.

5) Excessive alcohol. When a person has a hangover from alcohol use it is an indicator that the body's systems are malfunctioning. Again, the body will view this as a threat and can activate the ANS creating anxiety symptoms. Sometimes people use alcohol as a way of self-medicating to reduce anxiety but it creates a vicious cycle which can lead to increased anxiety. I've had clients who experienced significant decreases in anxiety when they quit drinking.

6) Medications and illicit drug use. Many prescribed medications can have an arousing effect. Commonly used corticosteroids are particularly notorious for increasing anxiety in those who are susceptible. In addition, chronic use of certain medications prescribed for anxiety such as benzodiazapines can lead to dependence and increased anxiety symptoms over time.

And, of course, certain illicit drugs are noted for their arousing effects. However, even drugs that don't cause arousal directly can be seen by the body as threatening. I have had numerous clients who reported their first panic attack was while smoking marijuana. I don't know the exact reason for this but I suspect it has to do with the paranoid aspect that some strains of marijuana cause or with the feelings of loss of control.

7) Surgery. Any invasive procedure is seen by the body as a threat. So, even something like dental surgery or outpatient screening surgeries (such as colonoscopies) can increase anxiety symptoms. In addition, many surgeries also involve the ingestion of medications not typically used, some of which can trigger anxiety symptoms.

8) Emotions. Of course, anxiety can be caused by intense emotions which can be viewed as a threat to the system. However, the point is that anxiety isn't always emotional. Learn to tell the difference between when anxiety is emotional distress and when it is body arousal for some other reason. The above are some of the common triggers that I have seen with clients. However, it is not an exhaustive list. At least, ask yourself if any of these other reasons might apply.


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