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Quieting Anxiety Podcast
CBT Tools for Managing Anxiety and Stress

Who Is This Podcast For?

Whether you're dealing with chronic anxiety, panic disorder, or just want to improve your ability to manage daily stress, these episodes provide practical tools you can apply in real-life situations.

How to Get the Most from This Podcast:
  • Start with Episode 1 for an introduction to the process

  • Follow the episodes in order for the best results

  • Use these podcasts alongside the Quieting Anxiety: CBT Tools app for interactive tools that reinforce the techniques discussed

  • New podcasts will be released at least weekly

Episode 1: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Using These Podcasts to Take Control of Anxiety

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How these podcasts are designed to guide you step by step in managing anxiety

  • Why it's important to follow the episodes in order for the best results

  • The role of mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral techniques, and relaxation methods in overcoming anxiety
Released March 19, 2025

Episode 2: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Making a Commitment: The Key to Progress

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why commitment is the first step in successfully managing anxiety

  • How focusing on small steps builds confidence and long-term progress

  • Why you don’t need to push yourself to take action right away — simply committing to listen is enough

Released March 21, 2025

Episode 3: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Make a Plan to Reward Yourself

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why rewards are essential for reinforcing new skills

  • By planning your rewards in advance, you're more likely to stick with anxiety management techniques

  • Effective rewards don’t have to be expensive or complicated — small, meaningful treats can make a big impact

Released March 22, 2025

Episode 4: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Getting Help and What is CBT?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why managing anxiety alone can be challenging and when professional guidance may be helpful

  • The role of medication in anxiety treatment — how it can support CBT but isn’t a long-term solution on its own

  • How CBT techniques focus on building helpful thinking patterns and managing anxiety-related behaviors

  • Why repetition and practice are key to changing unhelpful thought patterns

Released March 24, 2025

Episode 5: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Let’s Talk About Legal Drugs, Anxiety, and Sleep

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How legal drugs impact the brain and nervous system

  • The rebound effect of alcohol, marijuana, and anti-anxiety medications

  • How stimulants like caffeine and nicotine may be worsening your anxiety

  • How these substances affect your sleep—and how poor sleep heightens anxiety

  • Importance of reducing the use of these substances gradually and safely

Released March 26, 2025

Episode 6: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Before You Assume It’s Anxiety, Get a Thorough Physical Exam

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why a thorough physical exam should be your first step in anxiety management

  • How common medical conditions like thyroid imbalances, heart rhythm problems, blood sugar fluctuations, and chronic pain can produce anxiety-like symptoms

  • The connection between physical health and emotional well-being

  • Why CBT may be more effective than medication for long-term anxiety relief

  • How knowing your physical health status can support the success of CBT

Released March 28, 2025

Episode 7: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Understanding Anxiety: Why Education Matters in CBT

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why learning about anxiety is important initial step in effective anxiety management

  • How psychoeducation is used in CBT to reduce fear and confusion

  • How knowledge changes the perception of threat and decreases the stress response

  • Why understanding the fight-or-flight system helps reduce anxiety

  • How education builds confidence in using CBT techniques

Released March 30, 2025

Episode 8: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Why Does Anxiety Feel So Overwhelming If It’s Normal?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why anxiety is a normal, protective function of the autonomic nervous system

  • How your body’s fight-or-flight response can misfire in modern situations

  • What physical symptoms like tunnel vision, muscle tension, or nausea are really trying to do

  • How your perception of threat shapes your anxiety response

  • Why learning to interpret anxiety as a message rather than a danger can reduce feeling overwhelmed

Released April 1, 2025

Episode 9: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
The Anxiety Cycle and the Role of Thoughts in CBT

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • What the anxiety cycle is and how it develops

  • Anxiety often becomes chronic when thoughts amplify symptoms

  • How catastrophic thoughts feed anxiety symptoms

  • CBT helps by breaking the feedback loop between symptoms and fearful thinking

  • Tolerating anxiety rather than fighting it leads to long-term relief

Released April 3, 2025

Episode 10: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Building Relaxation Skills - Practice, Patience, and Progress

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why “feeling relaxed” isn’t the same as deep meditative relaxationWhat the anxiety cycle is and how it develops

  • What happens in your brain during deep relaxation (alpha state)

  • The powerful effects of conditioning your body to relax through routine practice

  • The powerful effects of conditioning your body to relax through routine practiceg

  • What to do if you experience relaxation-induced anxiety

Released April 6, 2025

Episode 11: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
How Does Mindfulness Fit In?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • What Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (MCBT) is and how it works

  • Why mindfulness helps reduce anxious thoughts, rumination, and physical symptoms

  • How to begin practicing mindfulness in short, everyday moments

  • Common misconceptions about mindfulness and how to work through distractions

  • Why mindfulness isn’t about avoiding discomfort, but learning to tolerate it

Released April 9, 2025

Episode 12: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Making Progress on Your CBT Journey

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Importance of reflecting on what you’ve already learned about anxiety and CBT

  • How your small daily efforts are shaping long-term change

  • Why it matters to reward yourself for doing the work

  • How self-awareness, persistence, and willingness are powerful signs of growth

Released April 12, 2025

Episode 13: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
What is Emotion Training and How Can it Help?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How emotion training differs from judgmental demands to “control” your feelings

  • Why emotions aren’t a weakness—and how sensitivity can be a strength

  • The three core steps of emotion training: understanding, evaluating, and regulating emotions

  • How emotional reasoning contributes to anxiety, and how to challenge it

  • Tools that help you develop emotional mastery through practice and repetition

Released April 16, 2025

Episode 14: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Analyzing Your Anxiety Triggers with a Mood Log

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How to use the Mood Log to track anxiety in real time

  • How to spot patterns based on actions, people, or symptoms

  • How to support your therapy progress with real-life data

  • How to manage anxiety with insight and intention

Released April 21, 2025

Episode 15: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
How Thoughts Affect Anxiety - Understanding Cognitive Styles

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why your brain naturally forms patterns of thinking

  • How certain thinking styles can directly or indirectly increase anxiety

  • The three categories of thoughts: helpful, neutral, and harmful

  • How mindfulness and cognitive restructuring work together to change thinking

  • Why examining all patterns of thinking—not just anxious ones—is key for lasting change

Released April 25, 2025

Episode 16: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Are You Demanding of Yourself?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How perfectionism can contribute to the anxiety cycle

  • The difference between healthy striving and unrealistic demands

  • Why perfectionism often hides behind self-criticism or procrastination

  • How to begin shifting from demands to mindful progress

  • Why the pursuit of excellence leads to more lasting change than perfection

Released April 30, 2025

Companion to Episode 16: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Mindful Hill: Letting Go of Demand

What You’ll Experience...
  • A grounding exercise to settle into the present moment

  • Peaceful imagery of a hill to illustrate progress and patience

  • Mindful self-talk to reduce internal demands and shift from harsh expectations

  • Encouragement to focus on the process of change rather than perfect outcomes

Released May 3, 2025

Episode 17: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Is It Really a Catastrophe? How Words Shape Anxiety

What You'll Learn:
  • How catastrophic thinking becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy

  • Why labeling life events as disasters can increase anxiety

  • How to reframe setbacks as inconveniences instead of crises

  • How mindful language supports emotional regulation

  • A simple tool—the Worry Box—for sorting and managing worry

Released May 5, 2025

Companion to Episode 17: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Calming Catastrophic Thinking

In this audio, you'll:
  • Use breath and body awareness to calm the nervous system

  • Recognize how catastrophic thinking shows up in your mind

  • Practice realistic, supportive self-talk to ease emotional overwhelm

  • Create space between thought and belief so you can respond more clearly

Released May 5, 2025

Episode 18: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Emotional Reasoning—When Feelings Override Facts

What You'll Learn:
  • How emotional reasoning works and why it increases anxiety

  • Why feelings are not always reliable evidence

  • How to pause and evaluate emotions before reacting

  • Simple CBT strategies to challenge emotional reasoning

  • A mindfulness reflection to strengthen awareness and balance

Released May 10, 2025

Companion to Episode 18: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Transforming Emotional Reasoning

What You'll Practice:
  • How to mindfully observe emotions without instantly believing them

  • Techniques to ground yourself when anxiety feels overwhelming

  • A gentle self-talk to help you reframe emotional reactions

  • How to use mindfulness and cognitive awareness together to change emotional reactions

Released May 11, 2025

Episode 19: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Challenging Approval-Seeking and Rejection Sensitivity

What You'll Learn:
  • How approval-seeking and fear of rejection create anxiety

  • The hidden ways approval-seeking behaviors hold you back

  • Why people aren’t judging you as much as you think

  • How cultural messages influence social anxiety

  • How to begin releasing the demand for approval

Released May 14, 2025

Companion to Episode 19: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Understanding and Easing Social Anxiety

What You'll Experience:
  • Insightful guidance to reframe how you view social interactions

  • Encouragement to recognize your self-worth and resilience

  • Reassurance to feel less self-conscious and more at ease

Released May 11, 2025

Companion to Episode 19: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Floating Free: Release Approval-Seeking

What You'll Experience:
  • A guided mindfulness practice to reduce approval-seeking tension

  • Practical cognitive-behavioral reminders to quiet anxious thinking

  • A chance to reflect on your true values and inner calm

  • Tools to create space between you and the need for external validation

Released May 15, 2025

Episode 20: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Letting Go of Control—How Anxiety Fuels the Need to Manage

What You'll Learn:
  • Why anxiety fuels the urge to control everything and everyone

  • How over-responsibility and emotional avoidance keep you stuck

  • The hidden control behind helplessness or passivity

  • How to identify what’s truly in your control

  • How to begin letting go—without giving up

Released May 19, 2025

Companion to Episode 20: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Releasing the Need to Control

What You'll Learn:
  • Gentle breathing and body awareness

  • Reflection on how control relates to anxiety

  • Visualization to support emotional release

  • Affirmations to build trust and internal stability

Released May 20, 2025

Episode 21: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
CBT for Overgeneralizing – From Assumptions to Possibility

What You'll Learn:
  • What overgeneralization is and how it affects anxiety

  • Why avoiding new experiences can keep you stuck

  • How psychological flexibility helps break patterns of fear-based thinking

  • A step-by-step CBT method for challenging overgeneralization

  • How to open yourself to new outcomes—even after past setbacks

Released May 26, 2025

Companion to Episode 21: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Opening the Door to Possibility

What You'll Experience:
  • Grounding breathwork to help you settle and focus

  • A guided imagery exercise using the metaphor of closed doors

  • Cognitive reframing of anxious predictions and mental habits

  • Encouragement to shift from fear-based avoidance to possibility and choice

  • Mindful affirmations that support psychological flexibility and self-trust

Released May 26, 2025

Episode 22: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Mind-Reading — When Assumptions Fuel Anxiety

What You'll Learn:
  • What mind-reading is and why it’s a cognitive error

  • How assumed judgments increase anxiety and avoidance

  • Why expecting others to “just know” can lead to conflict

  • How to challenge assumptions and communicate more clearly

  • A CBT method for questioning your interpretations and staying open

Released May 31, 2025

Companion to Episode 22: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Letting Go of Assumptions

What You'll Learn:
  • How to reduce anxiety triggered by imagined judgment

  • How to recognize when you're mind-reading

  • How to shift from assumption to awareness

  • When to support calm, open communication

Released May 31, 2025

Episode 23: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Self-Esteem and Anxiety — Building Confidence to Quiet Fear

What You'll Learn:
  • How low self-esteem makes anxiety feel worse

  • Why anxiety symptoms often lead to harsh self-judgment

  • Common patterns that reflect poor self-worth

  • Why you don’t have to feel confident to take action

  • How CBT helps you build confidence from the inside out

Released June 6, 2025

Companion Playlist to Episode 23: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
20 Steps to Better Self-Esteem

What You'll Learn:
  • Understanding how self-esteem is formed—and how it can change

  • Writing and editing your life script

  • Reframing self-critical thoughts

  • Learning to set boundaries, build confidence, and take empowered action

  • Encouragement to take one step at a time at your own pace

Released June 7, 2025

Episode 24: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Building Progress - Using CBT & These Podcasts Effectively

What You'll Learn:
  • Why repetition is essential to CBT

  • How to use companion audios and mindfulness to reinforce change

  • The difference between perfectionism and realistic expectations

  • How CBT can be misused as a way to avoid discomfort

  • Why growth happens gradually—and how to trust the process

Released June 12, 2025

Companion to Episode 24: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Trust the Process of Change: Letting Go of Urgency and Embracing Patience

What You'll Learn:
  • Shift from urgency to patience

  • Build trust in the pace of your personal growth

  • Reinforce new cognitive patterns with mindfulness

  • Support lasting change through consistency

Released June 12, 2025

Episode 25: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Using the Cognitive Diary to Change Thinking

What You'll Learn:
  • Why writing your thoughts helps create lasting change

  • How to build rational challenges you can genuinely believe

  • Why repetition is the key to rewiring anxious thought patterns

  • How using different modalities—writing, reading, and speaking—reinforces progress

  • Step-by-step instructions for completing a Cognitive Diary

Released June 20, 2025

Companion Playlist to Episode 25: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Cognitive Diary Training Examples for Anxiety

What You'll Learn:
  • Learn how to break the cycle of anxious self-talk

  • Practice recognizing common thinking errors

  • Improve emotional regulation through evidence-based strategies

  • Build confidence in handling anxiety-provoking situations

Released June 20, 2025

Episode 26: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Developing and Using Effective Coping Statements

What You'll Learn:
  • What coping statements are and why they work

  • How to create your own personalized, effective statements

  • How to use breathing to reinforce coping statements

  • How to match statements to different anxiety challenges

  • How mindfulness enhances their effectiveness

Released June 26, 2025

Companion to Episode 26: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Interrupting Anxiety with Coping Statements

What You'll Learn:
  • Practice coping statements that reduce anxiety

  • Break habitual anxious thought patterns

  • Reinforce rational, helpful thinking

  • Strengthen your emotional resilience through mindful repetition

Released June 27, 2025

Companion Playlist to Episode 26: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
15 Coping Statements for Anxiety

What You'll Learn:
  • Identify which coping statements are most helpful for you

  • Practice pairing statements with breath to regulate anxiety

  • Build a calmer, more compassionate internal response to fear

Released June 27, 2025

Episode 27: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Strengthening the CBT Foundation By Creating a Plan

What You'll Learn:
  • How to assess the CBT skills you’ve already developed

  • Why a written plan strengthens your progress

  • How to set trackable, realistic goals for managing anxiety

  • The difference between vague goals and measurable ones

  • How to create a flexible plan that supports long-term success

Released July 3, 2025

Episode 28: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Advanced Mindfulness & Developing Self-Compassion

What You'll Learn:
  • Why trying to eliminate anxiety can make it worse

  • How mindfulness helps you tolerate discomfort rather than escape it

  • How self-acceptance reduces anxiety and increases resilience

  • Two mindfulness-based techniques for cultivating self-compassion

  • How discomfort can be experienced mindfully, without judgment

Released July 10, 2025

Episode 29: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Advanced Mindfulness and Tolerating Discomfort

What You'll Learn:
  • Why tolerating anxiety is more effective than trying to eliminate it

  • How mindfulness increases emotional flexibility

  • The shift in mindset that signals meaningful progress in recovery

  • What urge surfing is and how to use it to stay present during anxiety

  • How subtle changes in your thinking can reduce reactivity

Released July 17, 2025

Companion to Episode 29: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Surfing the Urge: A Mindful Approach to Emotional Tolerance

Learn How To:
  • Stay with an urge without acting on it

  • Feel anxiety without being overwhelmed by it

  • Build tolerance and resilience using mindfulness

  • Reframe your relationship with discomfort

Released July 18, 2025

Episode 30: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Advanced Mindfulness and Body Awareness

What You'll Learn:
  • Why sensitivity to body sensations can increase anxiety

  • How avoidance prevents you from understanding what your body is really telling you

  • The difference between sensitivity and accurate body awareness

  • How mindfulness helps you respond to sensations without jumping to fear

  • A guided practice to help build body awareness and reduce reactivity

Released July 24, 2025

Episode 31: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Grief, Anxiety and Mindfulness

What You'll Learn:
  • How unresolved grief can complicate anxiety

  • Why grief isn’t limited to death or major life events

  • How avoidance of grief can fuel anxiety

  • The difference between healthy grieving and depression

  • Mindfulness techniques to help you process grief safely

Released July 31, 2025

Episode 32: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Advanced Cognitive Techniques — How Likely Is That, Really?

What You'll Learn:
  • The difference between possibility and probability

  • How to identify and assess irrational fears

  • Why anxious thoughts often feel true but aren’t

  • How to train your mind to think more accurately under stress

  • Why exposure and advanced cognitive tools initially increase anxiety—but build long-term resilience

Released August 7, 2025

Companion to Episode 32: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Noticing, Not Believing: A Mindful Approach to Anxious Predictions

Learn How To:
  • Observe anxious thoughts without immediately believing them

  • Distinguish between possibility and probability

  • Create space between your thoughts and your emotional reaction

  • Practice curiosity instead of fear

Released August 7, 2025

Episode 33: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Breaking the Media-Anxiety Cycle: Media Cognitive Filtering

What You'll Learn:
  • Why news and social media can trigger the anxiety cycle

  • Research on how opinion and bias influence beliefs — even when labeled

  • How to spot emotionally charged “clickbait” content

  • Steps for applying Media Cognitive Filtering in daily life

  • Why small changes in media habits can add up to meaningful anxiety reduction

Released August 14, 2025

Companion to Episode 33: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Filtering the Noise: Reframing the Outside World

What You'll Practice:
  • Creating a calm mental “buffer” from outside noise

  • Noticing and softening the emotional impact of incoming information

  • Reframing events or messages into balanced, neutral terms

  • Strengthening your ability to choose what influences your thoughts and emotions

Released August 14, 2025

Episode 34: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Advanced Cognitive Skills: Healing from Childhood Abuse

What You'll Learn:
  • Why trauma-related beliefs feel so powerful and resistant to logic

  • How to label harmful thoughts as “trauma messages” instead of truths

  • Using reattribution to shift blame back to the abuser where it belongs

  • Creating counter-messages that affirm your worth, strength, and right to love

  • Why repetition and daily practice are essential for lasting change

Released August 21, 2025

Companion to Episode 34: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Healing from the Lies of Childhood Abuse

Learn to:
  • Identify the lies you may have been taught as a child

  • Recognize the truths that can replace them

  • Practice affirmations to strengthen the truth and weaken the lies

Released August 22, 2025

Companion to Episode 34: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Strengthening the Truth for Abuse Survivors

What You'll Practice:
  • Ground yourself safely in the present moment

  • Remind yourself of the truths that replace the old lies

  • Practice daily affirmations that strengthen your healing and self-worth

Released August 22, 2025

Episode 35: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Advanced Cognitive Training – Thought Stopping

What You'll Learn:
  • Why recurring irrational thoughts still trigger anxiety

  • When to use thought stopping—and when not to use it

  • Simple methods like the rubber band technique and verbal 'Stop!' cue

  • How to strengthen the method with practice and repetition

  • Advanced therapist-guided training for difficult intrusive thoughts

Released August 29, 2025

Companion to Episode 35: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Retraining Your Mind: Thought Stopping Practice

How to Practice:
  • Begin with the short grounding exercise to feel safe and focused

  • Bring to mind an intrusive thought you know isn’t true

  • Practice interrupting the thought with “Stop!” and optional cues

  • Reinforce with affirmations that strengthen your control and choice

Released August 29, 2025

Episode 36: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Is There Ever a Time to Use Distraction?

What You'll Learn:
  • Why distraction sometimes backfires and strengthens anxiety

  • The difference between harmful, avoidant distraction and healthy, temporary distraction

  • How exercise reduces both immediate and long-term anxiety, and why it works best alongside CBT

  • How relaxation and breathing can serve as healthy distraction without becoming avoidance

  • How to integrate distraction into your broader CBT practice so you can return stronger

Released September 4, 2025

Companion to Episode 36: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Retraining Your Mind: Thought Stopping Practice

How this Practice Helps:
  • Gives you a safe way to step back from overwhelming thoughts

  • Reminds you that setting thoughts aside can be temporary and intentional

  • Helps reset your body and mind so you can re-engage with CBT skills like restructuring, mindfulness, and exposure

  • Reinforces the idea that distraction is a bridge—not a solution, but a way to regain strength

Released September 4, 2025

Episode 37: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Facing Fear Wisely — A CBT Introduction to Exposure Techniques

What You'll Learn:
  • What exposure therapy is—and what it isn’t

  • Why avoidance strengthens anxiety over time

  • How exposure techniques work by building tolerance and shifting perspective

  • Why guidance from a skilled CBT therapist is crucial

  • How to identify therapists truly trained in exposure methods

Released September 11, 2025

Episode 38: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Using the Anxiety Rating Scale for Effective Exposures

What You'll Learn:
  • Why tracking anxiety before, during, and after exposure matters

  • How rating anxiety levels helps prevent sensitization

  • The importance of bringing anxiety down after exposure

  • How to build a personalized rating scale tailored to your symptoms

  • How to use anxiety ratings to create an effective exposure hierarchy

Released September 19, 2025

Episode 39: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Worry Time – A CBT Tool for Facing Uncertainty

What You'll Learn:
  • What reassurance-seeking looks like (and how it maintains anxiety)

  • Why worrying can be a way of avoiding deeper anxiety

  • How structured worry time works—and why it’s considered an exposure

  • Step-by-step instructions to begin worry time as a daily practice

  • How to integrate relaxation and cognitive strategies after exposure

  • Tools to track anxiety levels and build uncertainty tolerance over time

Released September 26, 2025

Episode 40: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
From Fear to Tolerance - Exposure to ‘What If’ Anxiety

What You'll Learn:
  • Why catastrophic “what ifs” keep anxiety alive

  • How imaginal exposure works with anxious predictions

  • The role of tolerance—learning that embarrassment or uncertainty is survivable

  • How to combine exposure with cognitive tools for long-term change

  • Ways to recognize and challenge distortions

Released October 3, 2025

Episode 41: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Creating Experiments to Test Anxious Beliefs

What You'll Learn:
  • How to identify fear-based predictions

  • How to create small, real-world tests to gather evidence

  • Use anxiety as data—not a danger signal

  • How to shift from emotional reasoning to experiential confidence

Released October 15, 2025

Episode 42: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Track and Reduce Using Mindful Awareness

What You'll Learn:
  • How mindful awareness of behaviors like checking, reassurance-seeking, avoidance, or compulsions can help you step out of anxiety’s grip.

  • To discover how simply observing a behavior can begin to change it.

  • How to use practical strategies like clickers, timers, or the customizable Mood Log in the Quieting Anxiety app to track progress and gain insight.

Released October 25, 2025

Episode 43: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
How to Build a Hierarchy for Exposure

Learn about:
  • Writing your list of feared situations can be a meaningful exposure in itself

  • Organizing anxiety triggers into categories makes progress more manageable

  • Estimating distress levels helps you choose a starting point that builds confidence, not fear

Released November 3, 2025

Episode 44: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Acting 'As If' - A Mindful Exposure Method

What You'll Learn:
  • How to assess the CBT skills you’ve already developed

  • Why a written plan strengthens your progress

  • How to set trackable, realistic goals for managing anxiety

  • The difference between vague goals and measurable ones

  • How to create a flexible plan that supports long-term success

Released November 10, 2025

Companion to Episode 44: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Train Your Mind to Act 'As If'

This Practice Helps To:
  • Visualize yourself engaging in brave, values-based behavior—even if anxiety is present.

  • Strengthen your mental blueprint for how you want to act before the moment arrives.

  • Build emotional resilience by preparing to act as if you are already capable—because with practice, you will be.

Released November 16, 2025

Episode 45: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Assertive Communication as an Exposure

What You'll Learn:
  • Why assertiveness often feels risky for socially anxious individuals

  • The difference between assertiveness and aggression

  • How avoidance of direct communication reinforces anxiety

  • How to develop clear, respectful assertive statements

  • Why scripting and rehearsal make assertiveness easier

  • How to build a hierarchy of assertive situations

Released November 24, 2025

Companion to Episode 45: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Imaginal Practice for Assertive Communication

This Practice Helps:
  • Choosing a situation where you typically avoid being assertive

  • Developing a clear and respectful statement that supports your goal

  • Visualizing eye contact, open posture, and calm body language

  • Staying present with the physical sensations of anxiety

  • Rehearsing assertive communication until it feels more natural

  • Recognizing that others are often less negative than you fear

Released November 26, 2025

Episode 46: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Mistake Practice for Perfectionists and Social Anxiety

What You'll Learn:
  • How mistake practice can benefit people with perfectionism, social anxiety, OCD, and panic disorder

  • Discover how to build a mistake hierarchy tailored to your triggers

  • Get practical examples and self-talk strategies to make exposures more manageable

Released December 13, 2025

Companion to Episode 46: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Reframing Mistakes and Building Resilience

This Practice Helps To:
  • Embrace the normalcy of mistakes

  • Build emotional tolerance for discomfort

  • Challenge social fears and self-criticism

  • Cultivate self-compassion and reduce unnecessary apologizing

Released December 14, 2025

Episode 47: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Paradoxical Intention for Anxiety Relief

What You'll Learn:
  • How to break the cycle of resistance

  • How to tolerate and even mock your anxiety

  • How to gain a sense of control

  • How to use irony to disarm fear

Released December 31, 2025

Companion to Episode 47: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Grounding Yourself When Anxiety Spikes

Use This Exercise:
  • Before or after an exposure session

  • During moments of high anxiety

  • To reset when spiraling thoughts take over

Released December 14, 2025

Episode 48: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Gradual Desensitization – Building on Success

What You'll Learn:
  • Use an anxiety hierarchy to plan exposures

  • Apply the 0–10 anxiety rating scale to choose starting points

  • Adjust and reflect on your progress with self-compassion

  • Build confidence through repeated success—not perfection

Released January 17, 2026

Companion to Episode 48: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Preparing for Success in Facing Fear

Use This Exercise:
  • Before starting an exposure

  • When you need encouragement to keep going

  • As a daily reminder that even preparation is progress

Released January 17, 2026

Companion to Episode 48: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Feeling the Success of Facing Fear

Use This Exercise To:
  • Reinforce progress after an exposure

  • Acknowledge the effort it takes to face fear

  • Build emotional resilience through mindful reflection

Released January 18, 2026

Quieting Anxiety Podcast
More Episodes to be Released On Updates

Future Episodes Will Include:
  • More exposure techniques

  • Maintenance Plan