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Quieting Anxiety Podcast
CBT Tools for Managing Anxiety and Stress

Who Is This Podcast For?

Whether you're dealing with chronic anxiety, panic disorder, or just want to improve your ability to manage daily stress, these episodes provide practical tools you can apply in real-life situations.

How to Get the Most from This Podcast:
  • Start with Episode 1 for an introduction to the process

  • Follow the episodes in order for the best results

  • Use these podcasts alongside the Quieting Anxiety: CBT Tools app for interactive tools that reinforce the techniques discussed

  • New podcasts will be released at least weekly

Episode 1: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Using These Podcasts to Take Control of Anxiety

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How these podcasts are designed to guide you step by step in managing anxiety

  • Why it's important to follow the episodes in order for the best results

  • The role of mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral techniques, and relaxation methods in overcoming anxiety
Released March 19, 2025

Episode 2: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Making a Commitment: The Key to Progress

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why commitment is the first step in successfully managing anxiety

  • How focusing on small steps builds confidence and long-term progress

  • Why you don’t need to push yourself to take action right away — simply committing to listen is enough

Released March 21, 2025

Episode 3: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Make a Plan to Reward Yourself

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why rewards are essential for reinforcing new skills

  • By planning your rewards in advance, you're more likely to stick with anxiety management techniques

  • Effective rewards don’t have to be expensive or complicated — small, meaningful treats can make a big impact

Released March 22, 2025

Episode 4: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Getting Help and What is CBT?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why managing anxiety alone can be challenging and when professional guidance may be helpful

  • The role of medication in anxiety treatment — how it can support CBT but isn’t a long-term solution on its own

  • How CBT techniques focus on building helpful thinking patterns and managing anxiety-related behaviors

  • Why repetition and practice are key to changing unhelpful thought patterns

Released March 24, 2025

Episode 5: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Let’s Talk About Legal Drugs, Anxiety, and Sleep

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How legal drugs impact the brain and nervous system

  • The rebound effect of alcohol, marijuana, and anti-anxiety medications

  • How stimulants like caffeine and nicotine may be worsening your anxiety

  • How these substances affect your sleep—and how poor sleep heightens anxiety

  • Importance of reducing the use of these substances gradually and safely

Released March 26, 2025

Episode 6: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Before You Assume It’s Anxiety, Get a Thorough Physical Exam

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why a thorough physical exam should be your first step in anxiety management

  • How common medical conditions like thyroid imbalances, heart rhythm problems, blood sugar fluctuations, and chronic pain can produce anxiety-like symptoms

  • The connection between physical health and emotional well-being

  • Why CBT may be more effective than medication for long-term anxiety relief

  • How knowing your physical health status can support the success of CBT

Released March 28, 2025

Episode 7: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Understanding Anxiety: Why Education Matters in CBT

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why learning about anxiety is important initial step in effective anxiety management

  • How psychoeducation is used in CBT to reduce fear and confusion

  • How knowledge changes the perception of threat and decreases the stress response

  • Why understanding the fight-or-flight system helps reduce anxiety

  • How education builds confidence in using CBT techniques

Released March 30, 2025

Episode 8: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Why Does Anxiety Feel So Overwhelming If It’s Normal?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why anxiety is a normal, protective function of the autonomic nervous system

  • How your body’s fight-or-flight response can misfire in modern situations

  • What physical symptoms like tunnel vision, muscle tension, or nausea are really trying to do

  • How your perception of threat shapes your anxiety response

  • Why learning to interpret anxiety as a message rather than a danger can reduce feeling overwhelmed

Released April 1, 2025

Episode 9: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
The Anxiety Cycle and the Role of Thoughts in CBT

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • What the anxiety cycle is and how it develops

  • Anxiety often becomes chronic when thoughts amplify symptoms

  • How catastrophic thoughts feed anxiety symptoms

  • CBT helps by breaking the feedback loop between symptoms and fearful thinking

  • Tolerating anxiety rather than fighting it leads to long-term relief

Released April 3, 2025

Episode 10: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Building Relaxation Skills - Practice, Patience, and Progress

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why “feeling relaxed” isn’t the same as deep meditative relaxationWhat the anxiety cycle is and how it develops

  • What happens in your brain during deep relaxation (alpha state)

  • The powerful effects of conditioning your body to relax through routine practice

  • The powerful effects of conditioning your body to relax through routine practiceg

  • What to do if you experience relaxation-induced anxiety

Released April 6, 2025

Episode 11: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
How Does Mindfulness Fit In?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • What Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (MCBT) is and how it works

  • Why mindfulness helps reduce anxious thoughts, rumination, and physical symptoms

  • How to begin practicing mindfulness in short, everyday moments

  • Common misconceptions about mindfulness and how to work through distractions

  • Why mindfulness isn’t about avoiding discomfort, but learning to tolerate it

Released April 9, 2025

Episode 12: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Making Progress on Your CBT Journey

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Importance of reflecting on what you’ve already learned about anxiety and CBT

  • How your small daily efforts are shaping long-term change

  • Why it matters to reward yourself for doing the work

  • How self-awareness, persistence, and willingness are powerful signs of growth

Released April 12, 2025

Episode 13: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
What is Emotion Training and How Can it Help?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How emotion training differs from judgmental demands to “control” your feelings

  • Why emotions aren’t a weakness—and how sensitivity can be a strength

  • The three core steps of emotion training: understanding, evaluating, and regulating emotions

  • How emotional reasoning contributes to anxiety, and how to challenge it

  • Tools that help you develop emotional mastery through practice and repetition

Released April 16, 2025

Episode 14: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Analyzing Your Anxiety Triggers with a Mood Log

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How to use the Mood Log to track anxiety in real time

  • How to spot patterns based on actions, people, or symptoms

  • How to support your therapy progress with real-life data

  • How to manage anxiety with insight and intention

Released April 21, 2025

Episode 15: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
How Thoughts Affect Anxiety - Understanding Cognitive Styles

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why your brain naturally forms patterns of thinking

  • How certain thinking styles can directly or indirectly increase anxiety

  • The three categories of thoughts: helpful, neutral, and harmful

  • How mindfulness and cognitive restructuring work together to change thinking

  • Why examining all patterns of thinking—not just anxious ones—is key for lasting change

Released April 25, 2025

Episode 16: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Are You Demanding of Yourself?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How perfectionism can contribute to the anxiety cycle

  • The difference between healthy striving and unrealistic demands

  • Why perfectionism often hides behind self-criticism or procrastination

  • How to begin shifting from demands to mindful progress

  • Why the pursuit of excellence leads to more lasting change than perfection

Released April 30, 2025

Episode 17: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Is It Really a Catastrophe? How Words Shape Anxiety

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How catastrophic thinking becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy

  • Why labeling life events as disasters can increase anxiety

  • How to reframe setbacks as inconveniences instead of crises

  • How mindful language supports emotional regulation

  • A simple tool—the Worry Box—for sorting and managing worry

Released May 5, 2025

Episode 18: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Emotional Reasoning—When Feelings Override Facts

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How emotional reasoning works and why it increases anxiety

  • Why feelings are not always reliable evidence

  • How to pause and evaluate emotions before reacting

  • Simple CBT strategies to challenge emotional reasoning

  • A mindfulness reflection to strengthen awareness and balance

Released May 10, 2025

Episode 19: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Challenging Approval-Seeking and Rejection Sensitivity

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How approval-seeking and fear of rejection create anxiety

  • The hidden ways approval-seeking behaviors hold you back

  • Why people aren’t judging you as much as you think

  • How cultural messages influence social anxiety

  • How to begin releasing the demand for approval

Released May 14, 2025

Episode 20: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Letting Go of Control: How Anxiety Fuels the Need to Manage Everything

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • Why anxiety fuels the urge to control everything and everyone

  • How over-responsibility and emotional avoidance keep you stuck

  • The hidden control behind helplessness or passivity

  • How to identify what’s truly in your control

  • How to begin letting go—without giving up

Released May 19, 2025

Episode 21: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
CBT for Overgeneralizing – From Assumptions to Possibility

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • What overgeneralization is and how it affects anxiety

  • Why avoiding new experiences can keep you stuck

  • How psychological flexibility helps break patterns of fear-based thinking

  • A step-by-step CBT method for challenging overgeneralization

  • How to open yourself to new outcomes—even after past setbacks

Released May 26, 2025

Episode 22: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Letting Go of Control: How Anxiety Fuels the Need to Manage Everything

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • What mind-reading is and why it’s a cognitive error

  • How assumed judgments increase anxiety and avoidance

  • Why expecting others to “just know” can lead to conflict

  • How to challenge assumptions and communicate more clearly

  • A CBT method for questioning your interpretations and staying open

Released May 31, 2025

Episode 23: Quieting Anxiety Podcast
Self-Esteem and Anxiety — Building Confidence to Quiet Fear

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
  • How low self-esteem makes anxiety feel worse

  • Why anxiety symptoms often lead to harsh self-judgment

  • Common patterns that reflect poor self-worth

  • Why you don’t have to feel confident to take action

  • How CBT helps you build confidence from the inside out

Released June 6, 2025