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    Often people state "I'm just lazy" or "I'm unmotivated" when they are unsuccessful.  Yet, most of the time, the problem isn't laziness, but lack of understanding about how to achieve goals.  For instance, I believe that much of the problem the American people have with weight control is related to inability to set goals.  Oh, we can set goals alright!  We can set them until the cows come home.  But if we don't set goals properly we are unlikely to be successful.  For instance, I hear people all the time "I'm going to lose 10 pounds in the next two weeks" or "I'm going to exercise an hour a day" or "I'm going to limit myself to 1200 calories a day" or some combination of these statements in attempts to manage weight.  However, even though they might achieve these goals over the short-term, any long-term change is unlikely.  They will revert to old habits with resignation sighing, "I'm unmotivated.  I'll never be able to lose weight."

     The same problem can occur in the work setting: "If only I could get organized, I would be more successful at work."  Or in sports: "I just don't stick with things.  I give up too easily."  Again, the problem is likely to be problems with setting goals.  We tend to set goals that are unreasonable, perfectionistic, and unachievable.  You may question this statement, "What do you mean unachievable?  I see people achieving these goals all the time."  Which is true.  However, most likely they achieved their goals by following some of the principles I discuss below.  (Click to continue)

 

 

 

Training “smart” is more important than the amount of daily practice.  Too often an athlete believes that the more he or she practices, the more proficient he/she will become.  However, this plan is not only ineffective, but it can also be detrimental to achieving the desired outcome.  An athlete who practices frequently and hard without an overall plan will be more likely to suffer the effects of overtraining such as burn-out, exhaustion, and increased injuries rather than actually improving performance.  By developing a set of specific goals and a plan for reaching those goals, athletes can more effectively use their practice time and even reduce the time required in practice to attain their goals.  Obviously, this does not mean that the martial artist can achieve rank or win tournaments with little practice; it means that the athlete does not need to waste time through ineffective practice and through the harmful effects of overtraining.  (Click to continue)


Some people may be curious as to why this website is dedicated to the "pursuit of excellence" when I am constantly warning about the dangers of perfectionism.  To address this question we must differentiate between the pursuit of excellence and the need to be perfect.  These concepts are not only different but can be considered antagonistic to one another. In fact these concepts are so opposed to one another that  excellence can best be attained by giving up the demands of perfection. (Click to continue.)

"...Pursuing excellence may require tremendous effort and focus as well as other resources.  But it does not demand a sacrifice of self-esteem as it tends to focus on the process of achievement rather than the outcome."

     A young soccer player accompanied by his father reluctantly walked into my office because he had problems with "motivation" according to his father.  The boy sat quietly while his father explained, "He just doesn't seem to care.  He's good enough to get a scholarship to college but he's not making the effort.  I tell him all the time how he can improve his game but I never see any effort."  When I asked about the coach's involvement the father responded, "He's just useless.  He thinks the most important thing is for the kids to have fun.  He encourages them but he never tells them specifics about how to improve.  I think I need to switch him to another team where the coach focuses more on winning games."  When I talked to the boy alone I found out that he really enjoyed soccer but felt that he couldn't meet his father's demands.  He also felt that he didn't get much direction from his coach.  As a result, he didn't have clear ideas about how to improve his skills.

     The above situation describes three different sets of goals that were developed without any communication among the people involved.  His father's goals were outcome or success-oriented goals focused on winning games or "winning" a scholarship.  The coach's goals weren't focused on the skills at all but on the emotional aspect of enjoying the sport.  The boy wanted to improve specific skills but needed assistance to develop performance-oriented goals.  However, due to his father's expectations he tended to be fearful of failure; this failure-orientation in his goals tended to decrease motivation and persistence.  (Click to continue)

 

 

 


Although sports psychology is still in its infancy, a tremendous amount of interest has been generated by the potential of psychological principles to enhance athletic performance.  In particular, the dedication to empirical examination of the tenets of cognitive-behavioral theory has led to more effective clinical techniques which have been intuitively appealing to sport psychology consultants.  As a result, psychological methods were implemented to enhance performance prior to solid research support.   However, recent reviews of studies conducted in the last approximately fifteen years have shown the psychological methods to be useful in the area of sports performance enhancement (Greenspan & Feltz, 1989; Weinberg and Comar, 1994).  (Click to continue)

"...sports psychology can assist martial artists with achieving peak perfor-mance in both katas and sparring."

 

 

Developing Focus

Although martial arts derive from the eastern philosophical thinking which focuses on the importance of the combined interaction of the mind and body, many western martial artists tend to ignore the mental aspects of the art and only focus on the physical aspects.

Interestingly, other sports that were not so grounded in the metaphysical traditions seem to have more easily accepted the precepts of sport psychology and embraced the development of mental skills. It seems that more and more frequently, whenever a sporting event is on television, references are made to sport psychologists assisting the athletes. Top athletes in most sports are turning to sport psychologists to enhance their performance because the development of the mental skills has been shown to give an edge to those athletes.

It is true that elite martial artists do develop the necessary mental skills required to be competitive; they achieve these skills mainly through trial and error. However, this is a very inefficient way to develop a skill.  (Click to continue)

 

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